​​In My Client's Words..

 

Peggy K | Age: 37 | Years Married: 9 | Australia

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My husband had just moved out. He said he didn’t love me anymore and I was on my own with three small kids. I was in a lot of pain and I was so desperate to make things work, so I reached out for private coaching.

 

Talking to Coach Laura was like receiving a big warm hug. She was there for me during my hardest months and I looked forward to every session because I knew that I would come out of it feeling so much stronger. She stood for me, and for the vision I created for my marriage like no one else in my life could have.

 

Without her coaching, I probably would have given up hope that I could save my marriage. Coach Laura guided me each step of the way. She helped me show up as the woman and wife that I want to be. Now, my husband and I have fun together, we laugh more, enjoy each other's company, and he does so much to make me feel safe and cared for!

 

Private coaching has been the most valuable investment I could have made in myself and my marriage. For any woman who is going through a marriage breakdown or even just wondering if there’s more to life/love than what she currently has, I would say get coaching. You won’t regret it!

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Katie | Years Married: 10

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Working with Laura is the best investment I have made in myself and my marriage. Prior to coaching, my husband and I were working to reconnect and rekindle intimacy after a separation.

 

Although he had moved home, I felt desperately uncertain and walked on eggshells, fearful of the future. A friend introduced me to the six intimacy skills, but I struggled to implement them on my own. Coaching was a game changer. 

 

Laura helped me to get clear on what was on my paper versus my husband’s, and really work to embody the skills in my life. We dug deep into respect and relinquishing control. Even more important, Laura helped me to rediscover myself, and heal the wounded scripting I had been living with for so long.

 

Laura encouraged me to stretch, and her gentle  coaching and shared experiences allowed me to really envision a brighter future for myself. For the first time, I loved the woman I saw in the mirror, and was able to look at my past mistakes with kindness and empathy.

 

These days, my marriage is full of passion and connection. My husband regularly calls me beautiful and tells me that he loves me. We laugh and play together even more than when we were dating. He even gifted me a pair of black diamond earrings!

 

The changes on the inside have also been dramatic. I smile, laugh, and dance more. I feel confident in myself as a feminine, magnetic being. I am living a life that I always dreamed of. A happy marriage is the icing on the cake of fulfillment that I have found in myself.

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Jeana C. | Age: 32 | Married 1 Year | USA

 

I decided to get coaching because I wanted to get back to the way things were when I first met my partner. Coach Laura made me feel incredibly safe during our sessions. She would listen deeply and validate my experience, then find a way to guide me to untangle myself from my pain.

 

After every session with Laura, I would feel empowered, inspired, and renewed. Time and time again, her invitations, once put into practice, initiated higher levels of intimacy in my relationship .

 

As a result of her private coaching, I have restored my own dignity. I am proud of the woman that I am in my relationship. I wouldn’t trade my new reality for anything!

 

Sherry | Age: 57 | Years Married: 33 | Canada

 

I was married but living a lonely life, doing things on my own and thinking that life might be better if we separated. So for once in my life, I put myself first and decided to get some help and support by getting a coach! 

 

Coach Laura is a keen listener and I felt safe to share very personal things that I was struggling with.  She picked up on areas that I had blind spots in and gently led me to skills that I needed to work on so that I could have a more intimate marriage. 

 

I feel like I have been given a second chance to have that loving, peaceful, playful marriage that I have always craved.  I would definitely recommend private coaching with Laura!

 

Gabriela | Age 25 | USA

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I had just ended a romantic relationship and had recently decided to distance myself from my best friend. I was struggling to process the loss of two very important relationships in my life. Fear and anxiety over my decisions weighed heavily on me. Laura’s guidance and insight made the transition much easier to navigate. 

 

It was refreshing to confide in someone who never passed judgment and who made me feel safe to express any vulnerable and private information. Laura ended each session with a skill that aimed to improve my relationships and become more aligned with my personal goals. She pushed me to challenge the thoughts that were no longer serving me. 

 

I would recommend private coaching with Laura to anyone who is ready to strengthen and nourish their relationship with themselves and with others. I was surprised to find that the intimacy skills can be applied to virtually every part of my life. I believe everyone could benefit from private coaching!

 

B | Married 10 Years | UK

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I have been on the 6 month coaching program with Laura and have only recently completed my sessions with her. I can honestly say that there has been so many improvements on my mindset, marriage and perspective.

I have gained so much golden nuggets of knowledge along the way and have been practicing the skills with Laura's guidance regularly.

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There's still work to do on my self improvement as old habits do take time to shift but I can definitely say that after incidents in my marriage I now understand and can see where I may have gone wrong and can confidently go and apologize to my husband about it without feeling stubborn.

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Additionally, I have taken steps to be able to be grateful for my husband for who he is NOW rather that who I want him to be, showing him gratitude, expressing my happiness and generally being more of a pleaseable wife (and person).

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I have so many takeaways and am still learning and growing and will be continuing to remain in the program to gain benefit from the community and Laura's guidance.

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I would recommend all women to enroll on this programme for self development and to remove negative/ toxic traits from within ourselves which we don't know we have, that may be affecting our relationships.

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ZG | Age: 51 | Years Married: 29

 

Before getting coaching with Laura, I was craving connection and warmth with my husband. I was also having a lot of trouble in my relationships with my teenage kids, my mother, and a coworker.

 

I was drawn to working with Laura because of her mastery of the intimacy skills, the depth of her thought process, her thoroughness, and her intuition. Her life experiences have given her so much wisdom and maturity, so I knew she would be able to understand and relate to my challenges. 

 

Laura’s warmth and empathy, combined with being completely non-judgmental, made me feel totally safe and comfortable. I trusted her and always knew that she was leading me down the right path. 

 

Laura expertly helped me get past my blind spots and helped me uncover ways to apply the intimacy skills to every situation. I felt heard and understood and always took away a concrete step to apply that would help me. 

 

I can’t recommend coaching with Laura more highly. It has improved every aspect of my life and I have never felt happier or more at peace. 

 

Theresa Wampler | Age: 40 | Years Married: 1 | USA

 

I was often frustrated by my husband’s habits. I wanted him to help me more and be more loving towards me. I would complain that he was lazy, “too particular”, and always micromanaging me. But I did not want to give up on the idea that we could have a loving, fun marriage that really felt like a team. 

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I always enjoyed my coaching sessions with Laura. She is a warm, safe person who I can be myself with and talk about what’s really going on. During coaching, she could always find the right story that helped me see my problem from a different angle so I could turn the situation around for the better.  

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With the help of Laura's coaching, I’ve built better habits that improve my marriage and learned to create the positive changes I’d like to see.   

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As a new mother, I can see how the stresses of parenting small kids can wear on couples and frustrate a marriage. I rely on these Skills daily to keep my relationship with my husband loving and fun. Getting regular coaching keeps me positive and accountable so I can create the marriage I want!

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Julie | Age: 36 | Years Married: 8 |USA

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My husband and I were overwhelmed with a house, young kids, and jobs. I felt so burdened, like I had to "do it all because he wouldn't step up", and I felt a lot of anger about this. We were fighting a lot. 

 

My experience coaching with Coach Laura was awesome. She was always so validating and affirming of my experiences, and I feel like no issue is too big or too challenging for her. Any struggle I am currently having in my marriage I know I can bring to our calls and I know that I will not only feel like I'm not alone, but I'll leave feeling optimistic and having actual action steps to take. I greatly appreciated her patience, vulnerability, and guidance.

 

Now we have way less fighting than before, which is so important for the culture in our home with little kids. Because the endless fighting/quiet tension is gone, we both see our relationship through new eyes and are hopeful and excited about it. This mental shift is the biggest win. Other wins are my husband taking the reigns on several projects that he hadn't before (and that I resented him for) like fixing broken appliances and researching and buying our family car, stepping in when I'm exhausted to do housework and childcare, and writing me a surprise love letter. 

 

I would recommend getting coaching with Coach Laura Amador to everyone. Here's the deal. The books by Laura Doyle are great guides and I recommend reading them to really understand this approach and start changing your perspective. But I kept feeling like I was not consistent enough with the skills the books teach. I kept dipping back into anger and resentment and then not wanting to continue. 

 

Coach Laura Amador takes the books and personalizes them to your own situation. As a client, you bring your very specific issues that are happening in real time, you get to vent, then you get help creating action steps for those specific issues. It makes a huge difference. 

 

One more note. I've done individual therapy, and I've done marriage therapy. Coaching with Laura just works. There is just no denying the almost immediate little "wins." If you keep building on those step by step results, one day soon you'll look back and see that your whole marriage has changed for the better, and you have changed for the better.